My hubby and I got these, and both love them! I like to stick one in his wallet, so the next time he opens it (usually in a very public place), there it is. He's told me that he gets hard right there, just thinking about using the coupon, and I get aroused thinking about him thinking about it -- you get the idea! He does the same to me, puting one in my purse or coat pocket. The cards are great, and the anticipation is even better!